Having a hard times? Drink tea/something, sit back and relax. Typical commercial slogan that doesn't imply anything to me at all. Are you buying it? Honestly, really? Hard times or problems exist in everywhere, anywhere, whoever, anybody, and everyone. By just drink something, or by sitting and relax won't solve a thing or anything at all. We experience the constant emotionally depressed or so very down upon reacting to this matter. To some people, unfortunately can be easily succumbed into it and dwells in the darkness for an eternity (ok, that's a little harsh and nonlogic) but the main thing is, you won't be able to act like the normal you, or even a normal person. To simplify, it changes how you see things and challenges the inner you upon seeing how would you react.
Recently, I read one of my friend blog. It's very long I'd say but I think it's worth wasting my time upon reading things that really inspiring. To me at least. Yesterday, I attended my Falsafah Ilmu class and honestly I truly believes every single words of what my lecture had said. Sometimes when people ask "Why do you live?", "What is your motto?", or "What do you believe in?" and then you hear the answer is "I don't know." What is you first impression to that person? Some people might see it as something isn't worth it or he/she doesn't have purposes of living. FALSE. "I don't know" doesn't mean that he/she doesn't have answer to that questions. It just happen that they doesn't realized it yet. It is said that, you have to ask yourself to every things, keep criticizing like always ask WHY to every question that come out of that very mind of yours. Until it reaches the point where you can't ask "why", then that is the answer! You can find your Falsafah by doing just the same process.
If people can understand that every problems has its solutions then it will be a happy world. To some people at least. I see my friend dealt problems very maturely. It really inspired me how I should start by see things from like my friend's point of view. You don't let problems put you down, instead you put an effort to cope the problems. People won't go anywhere, if he/she took problems statically and JUST wish that problems can go away. Just like that. Unfortunately, solving problems doesn't work that way.
Some people may turn to God. That is of course relevant because other than you, there is God that understand what are you going through. So it is not exactly that you're going through something alone. People who realizes that, are the one who mostly will succeed to overcome their problems. I believe everything that has happened before, right now, and will be are all planned by Him. I am a believer.
